Tonight I gave my first BDSM lesson. To my old boss. It was a double fantasy because she is hot and outwardly dominant, and used to boss me around. She wanted to play these fetish games but wasn’t getting anywhere on her own, and she knew I was experienced in these matters. She looks a lot like one of my favorite pornstars, Joanna Angel, so if this visual helps you enjoy the rest of this fantasy, please join her site. It is well worth it with tattooed alt-porn galore, with real chicks that fuck for real:

First she had to overcome the fear of getting too far into S & M play. I discovered that she wanted spanking and light bondage, and she thought she wanted to learn to tie knots. Her initial resistance to all of this was reduced by my insistence that she trust me. I knew she wasn’t ready to take on being on top. She brought a male friend into the lesson, and he was a willing subject but not too keen on getting tied up. I explained how much fun the bottom has and she announced suddenly “I think I am a submissive!”

That was my signal. I threw the boy aside, put her in the corner and got to work. First step: BLINDFOLD. It’s the most magical piece of equipment to have, lets us isolate the senses and begins to alter the consciousness. I learned she was eager to be taken down, rather than surrender willingly. Finally after all those times she had me do stupid stuff at work, I had my way with her…

I grabbed her by the hair on her neck and slammed her to the floor. This is a great trick for newbies. Just about anyone with a submissive streak will respond to hair being grabbed behind the neck. If they don’t, they are not relaxed enough or not submissive or willing in that moment. She went right into it. But then she put up a fight. I took her down and pinned her on the floor, getting her hands into the velcro cuffs just in time. These special easy to handle bondage cuffs are in most adult stores now. I made her stand in an awkward position and kept touching her back and spine, going down towards the base to connect with her root energy with one hand as I firmly insisted she do as I say.

Eventually I felt her resistance wear down. She was flying. I taught her “the position” with hands tied to bedpost, bent over, feet spread wide apart on the floor, heels turned out, and ass presented as high up as possible with a nice arch in the back. Once she did this, I spanked her with my hand a bit, to warm her up. I felt her energy rise, and then I switched to the flogger. She was being so good about presenting her ass, that I took a chance and let a few slaps of the flogger hit between her legs.

She loved it. I could feel her getting wet. I struck her pussy over and over with the flogger, saying “you like it when you get your pussy flogged, don’t you?” I made her repeat it louder and louder, alternating between flogging and rubbing it with my hand. She almost came, I felt it. I wound the scene down so we didn’t get too far into it on the first time.

We shared a very intimate embrace and I felt how surrendered and serene she was. I don’t know what will happen next time we play but she thanked me for showing her how fun it could be and said she was no longer afraid of it going too deep. She wanted it as deep as it could be.

I left saying, I finally know what it’s like to fuck the boss.

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