SO, last night I embarked on another Love Swing journey that took me once again to places I had not yet been. Three hours later I was dripping wet and trembling from multiple wet orgasms. We discovered two new positions on the swing, one that was great and another I don’t recommend due to the safety risks we also discovered. After so many hot sex swing sessions, even I was surprised to discover new positions.

Love Swing Sex Positions Series: Positions 21 and 22

the Love Swing sex toy mounted on the ceiling

Suspended Cowgirl with Grasshopper Knees

This position was so rad, in the photo here you can see what the sex swing looks like mounted on a ceiling. The key for this to work is to have an ottoman or bench that sits just below the swing. My man sat on the bench and I was suspended in the swing above him, facing him, with my feet on the ottoman. Now we’ve done this position plenty, without the swing, but with the swing….OMFG! The key is the spring at the top of this device, allowing for amazing bouncing effect, so all I had to do is bounce a little and physics took care of the rest giving me a ride like I’ve never had before. So much fun! Without the swing, I can only sustain this position for a short while. With the swing, we went for an hour or so like this.

Read on to hear about the more dangerous position we discovered and for a closeup of the fabulous spring mechanism of this amazing sex swing, plus see a video demonstration of how this contraption actually works (more…)

Spanking bare asses is such a pleasure. If you missed my post on what it feels like when I get someone to spank my bare ass, or if you’ve never had the pleasure, you may want to read up on how erotic a spanking can be first.

Whether spanking sex is a hot new fetish for you or you’ve just never been on the giving end before, or if you enjoy delivering a bare butt spanking frequently, you can learn something from this post. I had my submissive sex toy write it, and she is well trained in our community by a whole lineage of dominant women who mentor the worthy. And worthy she is…

How to Spank Her Ass So She’ll Beg for More

A spanking can be gentle and loving or intense and painful, and either way, a whole lot of fun! It’s a great place to begin exploring S&M and kinky sex in general, cuz it’s pretty hard to cause major injury. Here’s an idea of the kink of hot orgasmic sex that spankings stimulate, in case you are curious: lesbian spanking sex video with Sinn Sage

Steps to Erotic Spanking Success

1. Always maintain control: avoid uncontrolled or unintentional pain to help promote trust and as much pleasureas possible by learning good technique
2. Communicate: discuss what you both find intriguing about spanking. Is it the physical sensation, the sense of vulnerability, the power dynamic, etc? Knowing why your partner is interested will give you most of the information you need as to how to deliver the spanking.
3. Boundaries: find out what your partner’s limits or boundaries are. Are they only interested in feeling your hand, or are they willing to try out a ruler, hairbrush, paddle, etc? Is it ok to leave marks on their normally pale ass? Would telling them what a ‘bad, naughty little girl’ they’ve been turn them on, or bring up emotional triggers from the past? Determine a “safe word” or some other agreed upon signal that things have gone too far and agree to stop if it is uttered. That way you can say “stop” and “no” and continue to play until the safe word is needed, if you want.
4. Determine Preferences: find out what kind of sensation your partner likes. Two common categories of potentially painful sensation are ‘thud’ and ’sting’. Some people lean heavily towards one or the other, and may find only one or the other pleasurable. It will serve you well to know their preference (though you may chose to withhold the preferred pleasure to mess with her head).
5. Assume the Position!

have your subject bent over your knees, laying across your lap, or bent over a desk or other piece of furniture.

6. Touch, Get Physical, and Get in their Head: begin touching him or her, run your hands over their ass, over their thighs and back, firmly grab their hair, position them to your liking. Most of all… let them know how much you are enjoying their ‘helpless predicament’. Let them hear your evil smile, and your passion or downright happiness about what you’re about to do!

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Just started playing with my favorite new sex toy: the Love Swing. I’ll post a full review soon but THIS THING ROCKS people! I can’t stop tweeting about it, it rocked my world so hard. Here’s my:

top 3 reasons I love to fuck in this sex sling

the Love Swing mounted on ceiling in corner of room

1. Better Sex: I swear we just fucked like never before in this thing and that’s from a couple that fucks a lot. Seriously
2. Save Your Back: having just recovered from a sex-induced neck injury, I recommend this swing to avoid sex injuries, as it gives maximum opportunities for access to pussy, ass, and mouth. Who doesn’t want that?
3. Exercise Sex: Placing your feet in the stirrups allows you to use all your lower body muscles to jump around on the cock or dildo and grind, wiggle, bounce, go up and down the shaft really slow or swing front to back on to it, then off. OMFG it was fun. I don’t want to do anything else these days, and this sure beats the gym. The spring at the top bounces you like a bed so once you give it a little push you get a lot of ride outa that.

I love my Lelo Iris vibe! Seriously, I am not saying I don’t like the Hitachi Wand Vibrator, but I like I can’t be bothered having to be near an outlet to get off.

Best Vibrator LeLo Iris

For example, the bathtub. I love playing in the tub, and since it’s the closest body of water to my computer where I blog, I play there a lot. It’s important that I protect myself from electrocution, so again, the cordless and waterproof features do come in handy.

I love the multiple different strokes the Lelo Iris offers. Variety is the key to major blowout orgasms to me. Too much of one speed or style of vibration can kill the whole game. In contrast to the Hitachi Wand, which feels great, but crude, the Lelo Iris is almost like a fine little hand stroking your clit up and down like its a tiny cock. It’s amazing.
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Kinky sex is hot sex, involving fantasy and passion, and often fetish. Marketing Adult XXX websites has exposed me to more porn movies and kinky sex than I ever thought possible. I meet (and get to have sex with) pornstars, review sex toys and adult videos, and learn bondage techniques and gather advice on how to give good blow jobs.

This makes me horny all the time and I love it. I have way kinkier sex than anyone else I know. I frequent dungeons and have wild group sex, including lesbian bondage and S/M. I get to try sex toys and bondage gear so I know what works and doesn’t.

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