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I share this spanking story in case it helps someone learn how to enjoy spanking. Or simply for my own pleasure.

Can pain make you come? I just left the dungeon of a professional femdom, and I am flying high with a sore ass. It hurts to sit as I type this. I lost track of how many orgasms I had, and she never stimulated my pussy or asshole. It amazes me how many players I meet never get to experience this feeling: overcome with electricity of pain so great that it becomes pleasure.

I admit, I don’t always fly like this. This Domina is one of the top pros in town, and she read me like a book. Collaring me and making me kneel before her to become her pet sex toy, I entered a world of submission that is my most favorite place to be. Ironically, it’s where I get to be the most free. By agreeing to simply obey her every command while I wear her leather collar and to be in service to her desire, I am free from all the other rules of society, and I can explore the extraordinary potential of my mind and hers. The closest thing I could relate it to outside of this kinky world is in scuba diving, that feeling of being neutral in the water, using weights to keep so the breath carries me up and down in the water. Well, that’s nothing like it, except for the breathing.

She used belts and cuffs to strap me to the most fabulous spanking bench I have ever seen, spanked with her bare hands in the most loving way, flogged masterfully, then lashed with the single tail. I have lots of nice marks from the session, purple and red, swollen…it truly aches as I type. When she had my red ass the color of scarlet, she took me off the bench and tied me to a St. Andrews Cross to torture my front side, pinching my nipples, flogging my pussy and chest.

The feelings I had as she raised the energy of each subsequent pinch, slap of hand, thud of flogger and sting of whip are hard to believe. Aside from the tools of a well equipped dungeon and gear, there was one tool in particular she used that is clearly her greatest power. It’s one that each one of us has and can assist us in many ways beyond kinky play. Read on to find out what that one tool is and hear details of how she got me to orgasm through spankings. (more…)

Tonight I gave my first BDSM lesson. To my old boss. It was a double fantasy because she is hot and outwardly dominant, and used to boss me around. She wanted to play these fetish games but wasn’t getting anywhere on her own, and she knew I was experienced in these matters. She looks a lot like one of my favorite pornstars, Joanna Angel, so if this visual helps you enjoy the rest of this fantasy, please join her site. It is well worth it with tattooed alt-porn galore, with real chicks that fuck for real:

First she had to overcome the fear of getting too far into S & M play. I discovered that she wanted spanking and light bondage, and she thought she wanted to learn to tie knots. Her initial resistance to all of this was reduced by my insistence that she trust me. I knew she wasn’t ready to take on being on top. She brought a male friend into the lesson, and he was a willing subject but not too keen on getting tied up. I explained how much fun the bottom has and she announced suddenly “I think I am a submissive!”

That was my signal. I threw the boy aside, put her in the corner and got to work. First step: BLINDFOLD. It’s the most magical piece of equipment to have, lets us isolate the senses and begins to alter the consciousness. I learned she was eager to be taken down, rather than surrender willingly. Finally after all those times she had me do stupid stuff at work, I had my way with her… (more…)