Threesome Sex Rules

Threesomes are my absolute favorite sex. Seriously, anyone who doesn’t yet agree that threesome sex is the best, hasn’t had enough of them yet.

Then again, who has had “enough” threesomes? Maybe some seasoned porn stars but most people I know, including myself, don’t get enough of them.

Blonde Amateur Kleio Anal Sex Scene

Well, one of the hottest new BurningAngel amateur’s, blonde tattooed Kleio, made an anal threesome video for Joanna, and judging from the photos they posted, it is everything I want to fantasize about: bbg bisexual Anal Threesome

I say fantasize because I don’t really do well with anal sex, and wouldn’t go there for a threesome like this unless they were both long-term lovers of mine.

Why Anal Sex is Better as a Fantasy

Anal sex can be fun but it’s a lot more work, and cleanup, and risk. I personally don’t find it worth all the effort with most of my scenes.   But there are lots of things like this that I enjoy the thought of, so I love to look at still photos and some porn videos for things like that. This photo set of the bisexual threesome really works for me. From speaking to other women, this is a popular fantasy (being done by two guys, and anal sex). Anyone care to agree or disagree, please leave a comment. Let me know if these pix worked for you too.

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One must: be open, honest, patient and be an excellent communicator. If you’re currently in a primary relationship and are looking to open it up to include secondaries, some negotiation with your primary must happen first. You both need to agree on: how much time will be devoted to secondaries, will you be sharing (as in threesomes) or will they be independent relationships, are you ok with secondaries being in your house/bed, will the three of you do dinner or other everyday activities together from time to time? Then comes more technical stuff… what kind of activities are ok? Are you comfortable with your partner having hot, steamy sex, but would prefer they not kiss the other on the mouth? Do you want penetration reserved for only you two, but fondling up to third base is fine? And, my own two cents, I don’t care what your situation is, discuss safe sex expectations! It’s not only your health, but your partners that may be put in jeopardy.

Be aware… you can negotiate all this to death beforehand. Your partner may say, “oh sure, I don’t want to limit you, I’m fine with all of this, go ahead and fuck her brains out in our bed with me reading a book in the next room”. And then, the first time it happens, you may emerge all sweaty and satisfied to find them huddled in a corner crying hysterically. It’s one thing to talk about being poly, but one never knows how they will feel until it’s put into practice. Thus, my advise is to start slowly. Begin with flirting in front of your partner, some light touching, and check in. Even the poly-est person who ever poly-ed can be affected by jealousy and insecurity at times. That’s ok, don’t call it quits just yet. Acknowledge these feelings, address them with patience and compassion, and renegotiate. Remember, this situation is supposed to make everyone happy if done ethically and consciously.

I’ve been asked, “but if you start dating someone outside the relationship, won’t that negatively impact your primary relationship?” Again, if done correctly and consensually, no. I like to use this analogy… if you have a child, and a second baby arrives, will you love the first one less? I sincerely hope not. Every relationship that we invest in should improve the quality of our lives. They should each provide something special and unique and precious that add up to a wonderfully happy and fulfilled you! Two happy and fulfilled individuals have a much better chance at succeeded as a happy and fulfilled couple, right?

I’d like to finish up by suggesting an utterly fabulous book on the subject: The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy. (Available on Amazon.com and in most major bookstores.) This is a gentle, easy-to-read guide that addresses most possible challenges as well as the joys that come from open relationships.

One last word of caution: If your partner has expressed that their interest lies only in being very strictly monogamous, do not try to force them into anything outside of their comfort zone. If they convey an interest in giving it a real try, great! If not, respect their feelings and desires, or resentment may be well on its way already.

Wishing you a lifetime of love, adventure and mind-blowing sex.

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