This hot Femdom does not go to kinky leather events without first sending one of my subs to scout it for me. My dear submissive sex toy went to the leather sex event in Saratoga Springs, near Clear Lake, California recently. After reading her review I have decided to seriously consider attending next year. Read it and let me know if you find her account equally as enticing by leaving a comment…

Leather Sex for All Sexual Orientations

Leather Levi Weekend is a pansexual BDSM conference that takes place at a retreat north of Ukiah, California. 3 days of camping, swimming, attending workshops and playing into the wee hours of the morning. Lots of naked debauchery is possible…it’s clothing optional!

If you need more incentive than this delightful description, I’m happy to share a bit of my personal experience at this event. (But not all the juicy details… some of the magic is reserved for my happy memory alone. )

I arrived on Thursday afternoon, slightly tired out by the long drive in the hot sun, and loath to set-up my 5-person tent by myself. Yes, I went alone with a 5-person tent. Why? For one thing, it’s the only tent I own. For another, I wanted my options open for having uh… visitors.

As soon as I began laying out the pieces of my tent, I was approached by my camping ‘neighbors’ who gracefully offered, and proceeded to, help me get set up. This was a wonderful glimpse of the kind of people who attended. I found everyone to be friendly and welcoming… and not in a creepy, “I’m doing this to get into your pants” kind of way.

Tired and dirty, I headed into the well-stocked, clean restroom to wash up (what a luxury while camping), then headed off to dinner. For such an event, the food was quite good. I let them know ahead of time that I was a strict vegetarian and they had no problem accommodating me throughout the weekend, with entrees of tempeh and tabouli, tofu and sauteed mushrooms. Upon entering the dining lodge, I was offered a seat by strangers at their table, and we talked and laughed through dinner as if we were old friends.

After dinner I headed to the main lodge for a meet n greet and some social time. While there playing a game, I met a most delightful, rather hot, butch-femme couple who grabbed my attention awfully quickly. From there I went for a soak in the enormous outdoor hot tub, then headed back to my tent for a good nights sleep.

Hot Lesbian Sex and Beatings by Butch-Femme Dykes

As lovely as this all was, it was the next day that I began to really have fun. The aforementioned hot couple approached me, and asked if I would be interested in negotiating a scene later that day. (more…)

Poly People it’s time to celebrate! Newsweek reported last week that more than half a million families in the US are Polyamorous Families!

History of Polyamory

They covered interesting tidbits: the term “polyamory” was coined in the 1990’s and added to the dictionary in 2006, the modern poly movement was started in the early 50s by a Yale theologian. They cover the gay marriage v. poly thing, and the feminist bent of the modern poly scene. It’s going so well until…Rutgers professor Helen Fischer is quoted saying that polyamorous couples are “fighting Mother Nature” and we’re hard wired for jealousy.

Really? I don’t want to fight Mother Nature! I want to Lick her Pussy!

Kinky is More Natural Than Jealous for Us Poly Folk

And the only trait that seems to be truly hard-wired for our species, if you read the news, is promiscuity: From the Clinton intern sex scandal to the Elliott Spitzer’s ordeal last year, and the recently outed young lover from John F Kennedy’s swinger parties back in the 60’s and on back to the Bible, our elite classes, leaders, and entertainers do seem to be more prone to fool around than to stay loyal. Is it that only the common folk are inherently jealous?

Not in my circles. My dear submissive girl, she’s not “common” nor is she famous. She’s quite special, (more…)