Gay for Pay Vol. #6

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Love Swing Sex Positions Series: Positions 21 and 22

the Love Swing sex toy mounted on the ceiling

Suspended Cowgirl with Grasshopper Knees

This position was so rad, in the photo here you can see what the sex swing looks like mounted on a ceiling. The key for this to work is to have an ottoman or bench that sits just below the swing. My man sat on the bench and I was suspended in the swing above him, facing him, with my feet on the ottoman. Now we’ve done this position plenty, without the swing, but with the swing….OMFG! The key is the spring at the top of this device, allowing for amazing bouncing effect, so all I had to do is bounce a little and physics took care of the rest giving me a ride like I’ve never had before. So much fun! Without the swing, I can only sustain this position for a short while. With the swing, we went for an hour or so like this.

Read on to hear about the more dangerous position we discovered and for a closeup of the fabulous spring mechanism of this amazing sex swing, plus see a video demonstration of how this contraption actually works

Standing Swinging Face Sitting

This position was incredibly fun, but dangerous! I didn’t realize it until I almost crushed my man’s head and broke his neck. Seriously ladies, be CAREFUL. He’s ok, but I guess we got lucky. So here’s how it works. I stood on the bench–positioned again, just below the sex swing, in 4 inch stiletto heels, of course. Then I carefully put one foot into one of the stirrups, then put my full weight on it, then put the other in the other stirrup, holding on to the bar at the top of the swing, seen in closeup here, to pull myself up to a full standing position. By squeezing my legs together, or alternating weight between the two feet, I could spin around from right to left. Now, my man sits on the bench below me, behind me and slides the bench forward until he is in perfect position to have me straddle his face.

It was a bit awkward at first, but then…OMFG! Ok Here’s where the danger comes in. See he got going, and of course as soon as I was reaching climax, I started to bounce, using the play of the spring, which I couldn’t control, once I am writhing so much as I am coming. All of the sudden I am bouncing way more than he can handle as I am coming really hard on his face, and the sheer force of my pussy coming down on his head almost snapped his neck. Be careful out there, if you try this at home, maybe this one is better without the spring. See the video below for how the Love Swing works with or without the spring.

So if you are not convinced that you must have one of these swings yet, subscribe to my Kinky Sex Life RSS Feed to hear more adventures on this amazing toy, watch the video below for a better idea of how it works, or head on over to the adult superstore to

buy a Love Swing

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Leather Sex for All Sexual Orientations

Leather Levi Weekend is a pansexual BDSM conference that takes place at a retreat north of Ukiah, California. 3 days of camping, swimming, attending workshops and playing into the wee hours of the morning. Lots of naked debauchery is possible…it’s clothing optional!

If you need more incentive than this delightful description, I’m happy to share a bit of my personal experience at this event. (But not all the juicy details… some of the magic is reserved for my happy memory alone. )

I arrived on Thursday afternoon, slightly tired out by the long drive in the hot sun, and loath to set-up my 5-person tent by myself. Yes, I went alone with a 5-person tent. Why? For one thing, it’s the only tent I own. For another, I wanted my options open for having uh… visitors.

As soon as I began laying out the pieces of my tent, I was approached by my camping ‘neighbors’ who gracefully offered, and proceeded to, help me get set up. This was a wonderful glimpse of the kind of people who attended. I found everyone to be friendly and welcoming… and not in a creepy, “I’m doing this to get into your pants” kind of way.

Tired and dirty, I headed into the well-stocked, clean restroom to wash up (what a luxury while camping), then headed off to dinner. For such an event, the food was quite good. I let them know ahead of time that I was a strict vegetarian and they had no problem accommodating me throughout the weekend, with entrees of tempeh and tabouli, tofu and sauteed mushrooms. Upon entering the dining lodge, I was offered a seat by strangers at their table, and we talked and laughed through dinner as if we were old friends.

After dinner I headed to the main lodge for a meet n greet and some social time. While there playing a game, I met a most delightful, rather hot, butch-femme couple who grabbed my attention awfully quickly. From there I went for a soak in the enormous outdoor hot tub, then headed back to my tent for a good nights sleep.

Hot Lesbian Sex and Beatings by Butch-Femme Dykes

As lovely as this all was, it was the next day that I began to really have fun. The aforementioned hot couple approached me, and asked if I would be interested in negotiating a scene later that day. Tough call… a very handsome butch and a hot femme asking if they could possibly hurt me in delicious ways and take advantage of me sexually. I believe I hesitated for about .68 seconds before responding, ‘yes!’

The scene was to take place that night. With that to look forward to, I attended a dominance and submission discussion group for switches (what’s a switch? That’s another post, friends) a class, had lunch, and played volleyball in the pool with a bunch of gay men, (it was wonderful, for once, to be the best among a group of men at a sport. ) checked out two more classes, and had dinner. After that it was time to negotiate and play my scene with the mystery couple.

Dominance and Submission, and more Hot Lesbo Dungeon Play

The rest of the weekend frankly passed in a big blur of beatings and hot lesbian sex for me! We made use of the outdoor, poolside dungeon, a slightly more secluded fisting tent, and the inside of the main lodge. I made an instant deep connection with this couple, and we were rather inseparable for the rest of the weekend. They happen to reside in a beautiful, tropical location, and I have been extended an invitation to go and visit them! Who would have thought all this and more could occur during a 3-day event?

Amongst all of my sexual debauchery, there were other delightful things going on at the camp. Additional activity options included nude yoga on the lawns, country western dancing, a cocktail party, a ‘run show’, a drumming circle and a community ritual. All this and more at a very reasonable price!

I highly recommend this event for anyone who identifies as queer, kinky, leather, perverted, or for those who love those who are! I am looking forward to next year’s already.

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Open Relationships 101: From Bisexuality to BDSM

Here’s the post I asked my poly lesbian lover of 2 years to write cuz she’s all into presenting this kinda thing while I am more just into orgasms…lots of orgasms. I have to break it up into two cuz she’s such a geek she has so much to say but I don’t think you will find her overcoming her gay-ness any time soon, nor her poly-ness…

I am currently dating an incredible woman… She is married to a wonderful man. She lives with him, has been building a life with him for over a decade, runs a business with him, etc. They are primary partners. So, where do I fit in?

Well, I am a secondary partner in their lives. I see my girlfriend once a week on average… sometimes more, sometimes less. Normally we spend time alone together, either at their house, or out on the town. We are close, we are intimate, and yes, we have sex. You may think of me as this woman’s ‘mistress’. But here’s the beautiful part… ready for it? *Everyone knows!* Everyone involved, including her husband, knows of our relationship, and encourages it. There are no secrets, there’s no sneaking around, no deception, no lies, no cheating! Imagine that!

There is a brilliant quote I’d like to throw in here from America’s all-time best-selling psychiatrist M. Scott Peck as published in a Playboy Interview: “There is no such thing as a marriage that does not have to deal with the problem of fidelity or infidelity. One of our myths is that we should be completely happy and fulfilled by one woman or one man. That’s nonsense.” I couldn’t have put it better myself.

In this writers humble opinion, putting all of your eggs in one basket is not only silly, it’s dangerous. No one person out there in the world can possibly fulfill all of our needs and desires by themselves. But we, as a culture, keep trying to force our partners to. Ladies… how often are you forced to attend your man’s sporting events, when you would rather be *anywhere* else. Guys, how many chick flicks have you found yourself snoring through to appease your mate? These are very basic examples of course… but why can’t you do these activities with people who actually share your passion for them? It’s so deeply, horribly ingrained in our society and our culture that once we have a partner, we should adopt the things they’re interested in, and share in them. At all times. Quit torturing yourselves!

Back to how this relates to dating… let’s say my partner is feeling particularly needy one day. She’s had a bad day at work, maybe she’s pms’ing, she just had a fight with her mother on the phone… and I’m at work. I can’t talk. Unfortunately, I can’t be there for her. She has a need right now, a need for comfort and reassurance, maybe a distraction of a more primal nature. I’m not available. Should she curl up into a ball and wait miserably for me to come home? Hmm, just the kind of homecoming I want when I get off work.

Hell no! If we can seek what we need from a larger support net, we are much more likely to get our needs met. We don’t go around advertising that it’s best for a child to have a single parent… the reasoning seems so obvious. Raising a child by yourself is *hard*. Children need so much. Two parents can offer more time, love and attention. So why is it said to be so great to have a single partner?

Here’s an even better example. Let’s say that my partner is bisexual. She has fallen in love with me. We are thinking of building a life together, starting a family, living out the rest of our days side by side. Does that mean that she should swear off men for the rest of her life? If she does so, she is completely denying something that makes her happy. She is neglecting a need. When a person neglects their needs to appease another, this eventually leads to feelings of resentment toward the person being appeased. Resentment leads to frustration, frustration to anger, anger to fights, and both of these tend to lead to that evil word, divorce. (Or whatever kind of separation, given your circumstances.)

And forgive me, but here’s the question that begs to be asked. If you really, truly love someone, how could you deny them what makes them happy? (Long pause… think about it.) Can you honestly love someone and tell them, “oh, and that thing you enjoy so much? Well, it’s outside of *us*, so, never again”. Not exactly a becoming trait in anyone I’d wish to date.

So… is it possible to have your cake and eat it too? Yes! Will it be easy? Like most things in life worth fighting for, probably not.

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